Missing out?

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Hello Glow-mates!  
Here's the deal: I love my SO.  He's so perfect for me and I love everything about him.  But he's 25 and I'm 18 and I feel like I'm missing out on all the college/teenage fun that everyone talks about because I spend most of my time with him.  It's not like he forces me to hang out with him, I choose to.  But he already had his fun years where he's gone wild and slept with so many women, and I haven't had any of that.  He's my second boyfriend and we've been together almost a year.  Thoughts anyone?

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Life isn't about partying and sleeping around. If you have a great guy hold on to him, if you think he can't be loyal to him because you're curious about the world then let him go.

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My now husband & I had a long distance dating relationship during college. We lived in opposite corners of the state. We trusted each other to do our own thing while we were apart.  Sometimes it was 2 months til I saw him. Trust is key. I partied with my girlfriends, joined a fun sorority & had a blast in college! I didn't do anything to hurt our relationship because I loved him & wanted to be with him. So I never had the "sleeping around" experience, but I never wanted that. I was just fine going dancing or whatever with my friends. We def had our crazy nights, but I am glad my husband trusted me to do that back then because I never would have had half the experiences I have had, & I probably would feel like I missed out.  If your BF cares about you he will trust you to live your life, as long as you remain true to him.

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Wow me and my SO are the exact same age and I've been thinking the exact same thing i mean I never got to go clubbing with friends or wear a tight slutly dress I mean am I missing out...

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College/fun isn't about sleeping around, I did that in college and while I learned a lot about myself most of the nights I honestly really had fun were spent out with my girlfriends. Maybe just agree with your guy that one night a week or every other weekend you'll go out with your friends, he can see his friends and you can have a college experiance. If you try that and you still feel like your missing out maybe you should break up with the guy. Timing is everything and if you aren't ready the relationship won't work anyways