Big Boys Need Love Too or Nah..?!

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So my best guy friend of 7+ yrs recently expressed deeper feelings for me and I'm really not sure how I feel about this.. 
He is a great catch (financially stable, no kids, etc) the only downfall is his weight. He's a "bigger boy". I feel like I'm being a shallow b*txh for not giving him a chance but, personally sex in a relationship is a huge deal to me and I can't even look at him in that fashion... Any suggestions.?

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If you can't love and accept him as he is then you don't deserve him.

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If u don't feel anything other then friendship it's not ur fault

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If you had feelings for him, his weight would be a non-issue. So the fact that you're asking speaks for itself a bit. If you do decide to get with him, please dont make it so that you'd only accept him if he was thinner. This dude is a human being with feelings and sounds pretty accomplished.

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Yes, I prefer them fluffy. Lol

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My bf is chubby and hes the best ive ever had, hands down.

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Hubs is my own personal teddy bear and the sex is the best ive ever gotten from the skinny and fit ones! He knows how to 'eat' and work his stuff!!

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If your feelings of love outweigh your opinions of his body, go for it. And weight is something that could change. If he's a keeper, keep him and let him know about your concern. It isn't healthy to be fat anyways you have higher risks to some sorts of sicknesses like heart attacks. He will appreciate your thought and change himself for you. You can go to gym together to support him and all. Personalty always comes first because people can always can change psychically

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I feel like quality matters in a person. And if you are attracted to them in that way you won't see it as an issue when that time comes

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I'm a chubby chaser. How big is he?

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Not even gonna lie, some of the best sex I have had was from a "bigger boy". Lol. Just sayin'.

Big Boys Need Love Too or Nah..?!

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