how do I tell my mom I'm having sex!!!????

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hello I am 16 years old, almost 17, and me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 4 minths. my mom has recently been asking me if I'm having sex and I lied and told her I wasnt. she made me an appointment for BC and I go in December . however I feel really bad and guilty because I've been lying. someone please help me !!!!?

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My mom found out because i told her that i was late and i might be prego i wasnt got on the pill about 4 months being on it i got prego now i have a 2 month old

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Just tell her the truth. Mother's don't like to be lied to. When I lost my virginity I was 12 years old and j felt guilty as all hell. I told my mother, she wasn't happy about and she was very disappointed in me but it's just a part of life. Do I wish I waited when I got married yes, but it's over and done with. You can't take it back. No matter how bad you want to. Everything will be okay.

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She was 16/17 once & she's taking you to get BC? Lol..She probably already knows

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She's obviously thinking that even if you're not yet, it's going to become an issue and wants to prevent an unplanned pregnancy. If she's making the assumption that it's going to happen, I don't think you should be nervous about admitting you were embarrassed to just say yes, you're having sex, and you appreciate her concern.

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UPDATE : thank everyone for the advice. I told her and she said that I'm not in trouble for having sex. I'm in trouble for lying. thanks for all the advice

how do I tell my mom I'm having sex!!!????

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