Who's your daddy?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for six months and we constantly have sex with out any contraceptives and he never pulls out.   It's not like we were TTC we just didnt really mind. Recently though we broke up for about two weeks because we got in a big fight. While we were broken up I was so devastated that I got incredibly drunk and ended up sleeping with my best friend. And now I'm pregnant. My friend said he made sure he pulled out and it wasn't very likely it was his especially since I had already ovulated. I know for a fact that me and my boyfriend had sex when I was ovulating. I just feel incredibly guilty and horrible because I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I never meant for this to happen. Basically I just want to know what the possibility is that the baby is actually my boyfriends and not my best friends.... (God that sounds awful) thank you for any feedback.

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Make sure to stay calm. Don't feel like a horrible person you're definitely not. There is a slight chance that it could be your friends but most likely it is your boyfriends. Congratulations with your baby I hope everything works out

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To be honest you have to tell your boyfriend. If there is a possibility it's important that he knows and it's important you do a DNA test. You can't go through your entire life not knowing and feeling guilty. It's too much of a burden.

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Have you been to the doctor yet?  Tell them you are not sure about the last daye of your period(even if you do know when it was)  they will do an ultrasound fairly quickly to determine how dar along you are depending on how long it was between the time you had sex with your boufriend and the time you had sex with your friend your estimated due date may give you an idea of whose it is. Does yor boyfriend know you had sex when you were broken up?  It shouldnt matter since you guys really werent together honesty is always the best policy you could always have a dna test done before the baby is born but thats costly.  You could wait til the baby is born and just have your friend tested if its negatice then you know its your boyfriends if its positive then you definately need to tell your boyfriend at that time but i still think your best bet is to be honest up front

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Just wait until the baby is born to figure it out. Focus on you and the baby. If he wants to be a dad after paternity is figured out then let him. But I don't blame him one bit for questioning it.

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I would say tell him what happened and tell him you think it's his not the other guys but you don't know. Wait till after you have your baby and do a DNA test. It takes about 3-4 weeks and it's 199% safe! No big needles in your belly that could potentially harm your baby

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Be honest and tell him.

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DNa test ?

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Go to maury lmao jk jk sorryyyy well there is a minimum chance but lets keep in mind it stills a chance am so sorry this is happening to you but have you tell your bf? About sleeping w the friend ? Well I will tell you a story I had a friend who had a story similar to yours , she ended preggo not knowing who the daddy was... she did a stupid think of telling both of them, and stupid enough the bf left her and she never hear from him, she has looked for him and nothing. Well the main point is the baby is from the friend... only w one night stand... was enough to get her pregnant the baby has the bfs lst name and raised by the father and mother which are still together now but she is miserable. Idk but I just wanted to share w you.

Who's your daddy?

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