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I am exhausted.... Completely for the last week I have been having trouble getting up and going I am 12 weeks today and it's just worse.... I have about 30 minutes where I feel good after I wake up and then nothing helps..... My SO doesn't understand... He really isn't use to me being this was I've always been "let's go! Let's go now!" Kinda person but now I dread getting dressed and I get drained from thinking about it... How do I make him understand? He just gets upset and says come one or I'll leave you here or gets pouty :(   WHAT DO I DO?

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I'm sorry that he's not being sympathetic. I'm lucky in that my husband is 100% supportive, especially the last 6 weeks that have been miserable for me. However, I think what really makes him understand is that pretty much every morning I get up and hug the toilet with dry heaving (there's nothing in there to come up, but I feel sick). I've lost a few dinners as well, so I think him seeing me and my sickness has really made him understand how I'm really feeling. Sometimes it's hard for people to understand when they can't see that something is wrong. Just hang in there and do the best you can.

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:/ that's sucks. I'm only 11 weeks today and iv been like this for weeks. My so is now only starting to understand how I'm feeling coz I haven't cleaned the house really I'm always napping after work. I never wanna go anywhere but I feel bad for my so if we always stay home coz he wants to go see people or go out for dinner. It's hard to make them understand until they are told by there friends or family how much it really takes it out of a women and the pain we are going through with all the changes. If you have a pregnancy app let him read it coz it tells you wants going on with your body maybe then he might understand. Good luck. It's really hard coz they will never have to go through it

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