What should I do?

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My bf and I have been together for 6 months. My topic is he doesn't text me or call me when he should. I haven't spoken to him since yesterday. I know he sees my texts but why does it take him this long to answer ? Should I establish some rules regarding communication ?

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One thing I told my bf when we first started dating is.. playing hard to get doesn't work for me your either in or your out. Now we have been together over a year. Message and calls have always stayed the same. Your partner should be the first person you wanna tell your secret to not one that will think about if he wants to message you. Just talk to him about it. Maybe he isn't as keen as you are for a relationship

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There shouldn't be rules but yes you should communicate your expectations of him so you're not left disappointed in the end waiting for something he never knew you wanted. Another thing... don't make yourself so available ready by the phone you know

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Yeah, I would see why he isn't responding, it makes me curious to know what he doing.  Anyways, he might just be a busy guy, but it would be weird for me.  When I was 6 month dating (my now husband) we couldn't stay off our phones during the day texting eachother. It sort of was a good way to start a relationship. Save the no texting for marriage! Lol! Good luck!

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Only thing I can say to you is communication is key in relationship. You should explain to him how important it is to not just you but yall relationship communication is, if he respects you and cares he will adjust and respect what u say and how you feel. Relationships are built on communication, love respect honesty and trust.