What is wrong with my SO?!

Question

Does anyone else's husband or SO tell you he's too tired for sex?!?! I've never had a guy tell me that and whenever he says it, I want to barf and punch him in the face.

We are TTC so I feel like he doesn't want to do the deed as often as me bc I'm purely baby making over here.

Can anyone relate?! :(

Answer

Nothing wrong with it. My ex was a sex machine and so I got really offended the few times he said no when he was really exhausted from work. A lot of times guys can't even get it up or have the energy to perform if they're tired. Sometimes our lovers just need to rest & recharge. It's easy to think 'how could you say no to me!?' Especially when we as women, I think often do A LOT for our men even when WE'RE tired but we can't take it personally. he still loves you and desires you the same but I think their bodies just force them to rest at a certain point. They're not superwomen like us! Lol. 
​As far as TTC, I mean I'm not there yet but men usually think that's extremely hot to literally be baby making so I don't think that's the issue. Maybe if you're stressing him about it like hurry lets have sex I'm ovulating-he might feel a little disconnected. Maybe he needs to be reminded that you want him not just his penis haha. But ya he probably just needs rest (:

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Have you all tried turning him on even tho he says no?!..If I want to once my so is sleeping I start touching him and turning him on and he just can't resist I get it all the time lol he can't say no! ??

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That's not the first time I hear that from TTC couples. Maybe he feels like your only doing it to try and concieve not for pleasure. 
Tell him to just do a quickie on and off. Lol

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Men don't normally find the act of making a baby sexy. Honestly try making it hot wear something sexy. Don't put getting pregnant on a schedule, definitely have sex when your ovulating and everything but make sex fun, wear something sexy, playfully sext him during the day or do things during the day to make him want you when he gets home. My best friend had the same problem with her husband. He never felt like having sex when they agreed to start trying to concieve however when she started doing things like making sex fun again and turning him on and stuff like that. She even began to deal with it better it takes the pressure of getting pregnant off or at least lessens how great the pressure is.

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Yes I have been having the same problem lately. And it kinda seems to me my hubby isn't in the mood on my most fertile days.? Idk if I'm just freaking myself out or what but that's also I side effect of a med he is on, on top of other sexual problems that seem to me have been showing up also.

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My boyfriend told me once he was too tired. He never has said no to me, even if he was tired, so I got super offended and felt like I was being rejected. 
And he got mad that I was upset but kinda understood after I told him I felt like I was being rejected. But now I never try to annitiate it when I know he needs to sleep lol.

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My husband tells me this regularly.

Don't take it personally and don't read into it, he probably really IS just tired!

What is wrong with my SO?!

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