Is it bad that it hurts when he fingers me?

Question

We haven't had sex but we play around
He has used 1-2 fingers and it always leaves me sore 
I used to think I wasn't turned on enough but it always happens 
Is this bad?

Answer

It depends on a few things. 1. Are you a virgin? That can be a big factor if so. 2. How often do you masturbate? (It has been said that too much masturbation can cause the vaginal vault to contract and cause it to shrink. At least I read that once.) 3. Are you relaxed when this is going in or are you tense? (When a woman. Isn't properly relaxed, the vaginal vault can tighten on it's own under stress.) 4. Have you seen a physician about this? (Painful sensations are not a normal or good response to sexual stimulation. I recomend you see a doc.) 5. Is he going too deep? Or being too rough?  6. Have you ever had this same feeling with a tampon? (All of these are factors to think about. I hope it helps. You really should consult with a physician though to make sure it isn't a real problem through. Better to be on the safe side. ?)