When did we become NOT private?

Kelli • Married since 2005, and had our first child on June 16! We are so in love with our little boy!!!
I see there are 19 people in our group!  This makes me a little hesitant to post certain things :/   I thought we had a small group, and I liked that I was sharing this intimate journey with a select few.  Am I just being a baby about this?