I just need to rant...Feedback is welcomed

I don't have children at the moment but when I decide to, I will not allow men in & out of my home period. Regardless of if my kids are aware of it or not. For one, if the Lord says the same, I would like to be married to my children's father. Not to say that it is wrong for a single mother to date, but when children are involved I will respect my KIDS first & foremost. Going out on dates is fine, but allowing guys in & out of the home when you have children is a whole different ballpark. The example you set for your kids is everything, & children know a lot more than you think.