Is sex ok when you're young?

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I'm 14 for starters. my boyfriend of 2 months and I have been a little frisky lately. using our hands and our mouths. he tried to have sex with me today and I stopped him because we don't have condoms and I don't want something to happen, like the condom break. 
I'd love opinions but please don't be mean.... thanks<3

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I lost my virginity at a young age and would for sure take it back to wait . If you're ready , go ahead . Just be sure to think about it !

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Just be safe and make sure youre ready. Im not gonna be a hypocrite and tell you its bad when I lost my virginity when I was 15

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okay. I had sex for the first time at 13 and I honestly hate how everyone is telling you "if you wanna have sex like an adult you have to face the consequences like one " yes it's true obviously you aren't stupid and know how babies are made hopefully and know the risk. me and my boyfriend were dating for 3 months when he took my virginty and we're together for 3 years after that. honestly if you feel it's right then do what you feel is right if you feel like sex right now is not for you then that's good too just educate yourself on how to properly protect yourself and you should be fine.

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As long as you truly love him. And you know that he truly loves you. Also be prepared to deal with the consequences that can come with sex. Use condoms and think about getting on birth control. 14 is a little young, but it's completely your decision

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I was 14 when I got with my boyfriend we talked about sex after 2 months and finally had sex at 4 months and we're still together our year anniversary is in 2 weeks :) 
As for the condom breaking if you use it properly it should be okay but if it does break you can always get the  orning after pill free from most clinics and if your that worried you could always go on the pill. I'm on the pill now its great I got it free from a young peoples sexual health clinic its all confidential too

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2 months is fast...

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Just be careful. And watch out. Sex is addictive,and be careful and make sure he's the one you want, don't do it just cause he wants to.

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Your 14 ? if you don't want to be a parent then don't take the risk , cause if your going to have sex like an adult you have to deal with the consequences like one also & I doubt you want to be an teenage mom & the way I'm thinking is your only a freshmen in high skoo .

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Honestly that fact that your asking this means your not ready and that's okay if your not whenever you are ready do what is good for you but be honest with your family before you do because maybe they can talk to you about what you want to know

Yes it is awkward but so is doing it for the first time and not being ready
Once it's gone you don't get it back, and 90% of people wish they had waited longer even if they are still with that person.

good luck in what you decide to do but make sure when you do it one day ( whenever) your ready.

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I lost my virginity at 14. Not only the consequences were bad but the people talking. If I could take it back and wait until I was an adult, I would. If you really want to know what it feels like, just stick a finger up there! I bet your boyfriends isn't as big as that. The boy I lost it to.. Well I thought I was in "love." But it turned out that he was just in love with my lady parts. You can be young and in a relationship, but make sure you're getting treated right and you're not just doing it just because. Get on birth control if you really want to have sex. But being more honest, wait. No rudeness towards you, just an answer.

Is sex ok when you're young?

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