Rings...

I'm pretty sure I posted this yesterday but it might not have posted don't see it on here...anyway 

Me and my bf have been together over 5 years and I know he hasn't saved ANY money for a ring and thinks he can't afford it. But he spends a lot of money on games and stuff. I'm not shallow or materialistic but I would like a good quality ring. I feel bad sometimes but then what's wrong with wanting something nice? I know the only thing that matters is love but I need to know that saving money is something he can do especially when it's something for me/our future. Am I wrong for wanting a pretty ring even though my bf doesn't have the money? Marriage feels so far away because I don't think he is planning for the future 

UPDATE as of 08/2017 he proposed 💍

It was really thanks to me being in therapy so if anyone is in a similar spot maybe consider it!