I don't want to have sex anymore, how do I tell him?

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I've been with my guy for three years now, and sexually active for two, I no longer want to have sex. It hurts me afterwards, I get stressed about pregnancy, and I feel like that's all he want out of the relationship now. Any advice on how to brig this conversation up?

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It sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible. You can't force someone to stop having sex when they want to and expect the relationship to survive. Sorry to say, but I think it might be time to part ways and take what you've learned about yourself into future, hopefully more compatible relationships.

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You absolutely can stop having sex whenever you want and he doesn't respect Your wishes then you don't need him.

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You can't tell a guy you just don't want sex anymore like at all. Maybe, try to talk to him about sex twice a week. Use the other nights as cuddle nights, put on a movie, and snuggle up. You might even end up having sex on those nights occasionally. Don't just cut him off though. You'll eventually miss sex too.

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Girl.... Lol i do it 1nce a month! ahhahahah.....

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Also, get on birth control or use condoms properly. Play it safe. Also, try some new positions or ask him to calm it down. Slow and sweet sex instead of hard and fast. Something that'll take some pressure off.

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Definitely talk to him.tell him you don't like the pressure and it's stressing you out. As for pain, maybe it's something he can work on-being more gentle-it's also something maybe a therapist can help with

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You should talk to your SO about what's going on, but I think you should also see your OB to get some clarity on why you're uncomfortable; maybe it's a fixable issue. Good luck ❤️