Got bfp this morning...

Well, this may sound bad, but we weren't trying, but we really weren't not trying. We miscarried a surprise (on the pill)in February and I went back on the pill in March. I recently decided to quit and use barrier methods with FAM.

Well, he was not a big fan of condoms or using my diaphragm. And while I warned him that we needed to be careful during my fertile time, he didn't seem to care. I for one do not mind the bfp, actually kind of happy, but worried how he may take it because he was adamant about not wanting a baby at the moment. Too many things going on in our life.

We both agreed that we wanted to do things the right way this time around, married then babies. We each have two kids, this will be our 1st together. I really wanted us to plan this one and test together. And have it be a happy moment.

Not so sure what I should do, today is when I found out, 10dpo. I am thinking I should just let it be and start hinting around throughput the week that I am due and plan on US testing or what. I really would like to have him read the test to get his reaction, but I am scared. Any advice on how I should let him know?