Cervix questions, answers greatly appreciated!!

Hello everyone! This question might make me sound clueless but I'm new to checking the position of my cervix and I'm finding it hard to tell if it's high/low and soft/hard. I'm in my 2ww,  half way through. And I've been checking this past 4-5 days and it seems like it's medium-high. Here's where I might sound clueless, I can just touch the cervix but there's something soft in front of it... Or is that my cervix? Lol I can feel something soft, almost feels like lips but when I push a bit more it feels firmer behind the soft part. So I'm wondering if the soft part is part of my cervix (if you can tell by how I describe it), and would that mean it's soft? Even though it seems former behind the soft part. Also if you can touch your cervix but just with the tip of your finger is that considered high? Thank you so much in advance!!