Wanting to get baby off my mind

After thinking for sure I was pregnant ( had cramping for 7 days!!!) and then Af showing up I want to be done forever looking for pregnancy symptoms !!! This just is not fun anymore ! I want to relax and not think about trying and I think my husband feels the same way. This is my new approach. I will still get the opk predictor kits and I will Bd on the right days. But I will not make myself go crazy over possible symptoms after. I think a lot of us ladies need to do this too! Good luck to all of us but let's not forget to enjoy each day. The waiting weeks should be fun and not stressful! Hey have some wine even !!!! Anyone else need to try this approach???