I am getting so discouraged

Ive been TTC for over a year now and finally I started taking Clomid per my doctor. My cycles are irregular, they always have been. Im only 21, married and have a bunch of fur babies. i work full time with people who have autism and Im constantly stressed out. Does Stress really have that much of an effect on ttc? ovulation predictors are negative yet I have light bleeding today and the cramping and today is my "first fertile" day. Trying to pinpoint fertile days are hard with how my cycles go. I am just so sad and getting frustrated that I cant even ovulate. I feel so less of a woman because I cant even do what a woman does :/ and I feel horrible but everyone I know has a baby or is pregnant and Im happy for them but Im also so very jealous that I cant do that. And on my own especially. Just looking for some success stories from some people who have went through the same thing. I used to bleed nonstop and then I was on birthcontrol pills for years and now I wont start my period without taking progesterone days 35-45.