Sticky Situation ?

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So I was in a 9-month relationship with a very selfish and controlling guy and now I'm pregnant by him. All we did was argue and fuss all day and I didn't think it was healthy for my growing baby. On top of that, we had no place to live and barely ate. He was too lazy to get a real job so we lived off of him doing shitty tattoos. I tried to explain the seriousness of the situation but he was so self-centered, he didn't care. I finally had enough and I was talking to a male friend of mine who's in the military and he offered to give me a place to stay and help me raise my child. So I packed up my things and left my baby's father. Do you think it was wrong for me to leave him?

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I think you were right in leaving him. In my personal opinion just because he is your baby's father doesn't mean you have to stay with him. You need to take of yourself and the baby.

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Probably the best thing you did was to leave him!

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Not at all! You had no future with him. & your baby should not be in that kind of enviroment . You did the right thing :) for both of you :)

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You made a very smart move.  My daughter's "donor" was EXACTLY the same way. I should have left before she was born.

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That's an awesome choice good luck ❤️

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It was the BEST decision you could do!!! Stay away from your Ex- boyfriend! He isn't worth it to think of him! Be a real mum and take responsibility of your child! So you are very lucky to get such a great offer for help.