He's moved on first ?

Question

My ex and I broke up about a month and a half to two months ago after dating for six months. He was my first real boyfriend (I'm 20) and he broke up with me once before and then came back saying he made a mistake so I took him back. We tried to work it out for another month but decided to part ways for the last time. It was pretty mutual but still upsetting. He and I have mutual friends so I'm sure I'll see him again. He also has some of my stuff that I will need to pick up at some point. My friend told me that he's dating again, and I know I shouldn't care if I'm over him, but it still hurts to know that he's so over me.

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Breakups are always so terribly painful. Please resist the urge to call him. Loneliness sucks, but getting through this really will make you a stronger person, and you'll be proud that you persevered. Trust me, you're young and you have many more good and bad relationships ahead of you. Be picky and don't just settle for some loser because it's easier than feeling the pain of a breakup.

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Sorry about your breakup the first ones are always the the most painful but the good thing is your so young.you have plenty of time to date and have fun in the proccess,then  one day the right one will be right in front of you.good luck have fun go out rent a movie invite a few of your girls over and laugh and have a good time.

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Most of us never really completely get over our first loves, we move on, we date again, it fades, but there is always going to ve a piece of you that he has. Even when you get to the point that you would not want him back he'll still have a piece of you. That piece does get smaller however. The pain you feel is natural. Once you can breath again look back at the relationship  and decide what things you liked best and least. Make sure to look for those things in the next guy and if too many of the bads are there run away but if a lot of the goods are there give it a shot. I promise  NO ONE EVER wants to know the other person moved on first, even after really bad relationships its the same.

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I don't want to get your hopes up incase it's not the case. But just because he's now dating doesn't mean necessarily he's completely over you. He could be using the whole 'dating process' again to try and get over you. You must of had something special if you were drawn to eachother more than once. I'm just saying. Don't get to upset about it he might still have some sort of feelings for you girl x