Do you believe in second chances

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Do you believe in second chances if your bf of three years cheats. But is trying his best to show he is sorry

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My opinion, no. Allow me to explain though, I am an over emotional, clingy, needy girl. If I was cheated on, I wouldn't be able to get that thought out of my brain. It's all about what kind of person you are. I am a strong woman, but once that trust is lost, I can't go back. I give my all& if that is respected& appreciated, then I'll be the best girl a guy could have. There's more to cheating though, you need to talk to him about why he did it. If it's a solvable problem& you can handle that- then you stick in there baby doll. If he has no legitamit excuse, if he has no reason that is good enough for you, then you know what to do. It's all about what's in your heart sweetie& what you can live with. <3

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Once a cheater always a cheater. Kick him to the curb.

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Yes, forgive if it was a onetime mistake. And he's honestly sorry. But if he keeps doing it send him packing.

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If he is willing to prove it wont happen again you can try. Idk that I would with a bf but would def try with a husband.

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Honestly, yes. I won't go into detail because I like my privacy but I believe people can truly be sorry for their actions and change. Abuse is completely different before someone jumps on me.

We all make mistakes. Scale your relationship way back with him and try to start over. Don't throw it in his face every time you get mad. Try and grow past this as a couple. If that doesn't work, then leave. Not every great love story has a road paved with gold.

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I forgave Him..stayed another year. We broke up and All the secrets came out. I was  inding out woman he slept with during our relationship a year after we broke up. If he cannot respect you enough to stay true, it's just not worth it. Trust is the number one important thing in a relationship. In the end it is up to you. There are some who come back from this, but it's rare.

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Ask yourself if you're forgiving him just because you're scared of living without him. If you can get past his slippage and the knowledge of his infidelity doesn't hurt you, sure.

Don't do it to save yourself from potential heartbreak because that's just procrastinating towards the inevitable.

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My husband gave me a 2nd chance and we're happier than we've ever been? (and yes I know he's happier now)
Everyone deserves A 2nd chance. Just make sure there aren't multiple 2nd chances...

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Def No!

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I gave my x bf a chance and after that he kept taking off with several different women actually came to our house to pick him up and he swore nothing happened but I knew better was with him 7 years and had 3 kids with him and I walked away, to this day he wants me back that was 3 years ago and I'm happy with my new nd of 3 years