Okay I've been with my bf for 3 years we have a beautiful 1 year old boy and found out I'm pregnant again, I love him more than anything but the sex isn't that great anymore in the beginning it was now the past 2 years it's really not. I have told him what to do or a certain position spice things up a little but he always refused, he only wants to have sex on the side and that's it nothing else and I'm bored of it it's getting old I just don't want to tell him it's boring but I think I've made it clear to him enough times to try something new, he doesn't do fore play nothing at all I'm at my wits end here of trying to get him to do different positions I want something to get turned on about. Any ideas would help.