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Today is my most fertile day I got a positive on my ovulation test feeling so excited to baby dance tonight!! But my boyfriend is not in the mood because his cat is sick.. And now am all emotional thinking that he cares more about the cat than me :(  so this month am out again.

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He obviously cares more about having his cat than his baby..

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...his CAT? What kind of a man turns down sex for a CAT? Maybe he doesn't want a baby, man.

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That's weird to me but I know some people are very attached too pets and can be emotionally hurt by Thier well being, you should tend to his emotions about this. This sucks cause I wouldn't want to have sex if I'm sad but I understand where you are with it too

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If you got your Pos OPK, that means you will actually ovulate in 12-36 hours. So bding tomorrow will work also!

And just because he's not in the mood bc of something with his cat doesn't mean he loves you any less or making a baby is any less important. I know how badly you want to make a baby, but if he's not ready for whatever reason, even if it's only for tonight, trying to push him won't solve the problem.

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Those saying the cat is more important to him is bs. I know from first hand my dogs are like my kids they are part of our family and when they're something wrong with them or they're hurting nothing else is on our mind so it doesn't mean he cares about the cat more than a baby but it's apart of his life. You aren't necessarily out for the month you still have time plus any days before. I got no positive opk and only BD 3 times i tour i wasted yet another month and got my bfp. Just stay positive! Him caring so much should show you he'd be a great daddy, that's how I see it when my dh plays with and loves on our dogs.

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Lure him over and tie him up. Lol tell him that u fertile now and that u need sex. Is he wanting a baby too? X

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Did you have sex yesterday? Or the day before? Did you have ewcm? I know they "say" sperm can live for 5 days but that is under the best of circumstances. I think it is more like 1-3 days. So hopefully, you bd within the last 2 day and then bd tomorrow asap. That would give you a good chance! GL