Needing advise!

My husband and I have been together going on 5 years total, 3 years married. For the past year I feel like things just aren't going anywhere. We argue and fight a lot. We both have done things in the past, him more so than me, that has affected me. I just don't even want to have sex anymore. I have gotten attracted to other men. We have talked about separating, but then my husband turns around and says he doesn't want to. I on the other hand have thought about it constantly. 
One night I went out to bowl with two girlfriends for the first time in a long time. My husband starts texting me at 7 o'clock asking when I'm coming home and etc. he on the other hand has been out with friends and stayed out way later than he should have. I called him at 3 AM asking where he was and that he should be home. I was pretty upset. So he acted childish and stayed out until 7 AM. I just don't think that is right. 
So how would I go about talking to him about how I am feeling, about how I think I need space? I just don't know what to do. Please any advice?
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