Is it bad?

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Is it bad to try and get pregnant with your husband knowing. As if you are planning to get pregnant but you are doing it behind his back??

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Wow. I'm appalled by this. Who does such a snakey, underhanded, cruel thing to a person they are supposed to love? Gah. I'm disgusted.

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But to answer what I think you are asking...yes I think that's a horrible thing to do. The people that do this are out there and some of them wind up raising the baby alone and many wind up in court. Sadly I've seen this first hand

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And of course, you know it's sooo wrong so you don't sign your name??

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That's deceptive. If he doesn't want a baby yet, his choice needs to be respected just as much as yours would be. Getting pregnant in an "oopsie" is different than getting pregnant "behind his back", when he's made it clear he's not on board. You don't want to start this wonderful journey with resentment from him, which is ultimately what will happen.

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It's terrible.

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You'd probably hate it if he even sent a text message behind your back. And you want to create an entire PERSON without telling him? Just, wow...

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How would you feel if you were using condoms a BC and your husband pooled holes it them to get you pregnant ? If you didn't want a child!

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You meant without him knowing ?

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This question is a contradiction. Did you mean to say 'without husband knowing'

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This doesn't make sense.