should I tell him im abstinent to see how he feels?

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Since you chose to be abstinent you should make sure whomever your dating or trying to date knows your boundaries that way he doesn't have certain expectations that you aren't going to fulfill

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If you're abstinent, this is an important topic of discussion in a relationship. Definitely NOT stupid. It's important to you, and if he can't respect it then he's not the one for you. It depends on how long you've been seeing one another on when you should tell him.

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This depends are you doing it because you actually are or are you doing this as a test? If you are you need to have that conversation. If this is a test then you need to give your head a shake and not bother him with childish things.

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I do not think this is dumb at all, but I do think u need to tell him.

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I think that's stupid.