Kids?

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My boyfriend has one child from a previous relationship and doesn't want any more while I do. We've been together for a little over a year and he's been my best friend for eleven years. I'm not sure what to do. Any idea?

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Hey ladies.  Just an update. He did say no to kids, but when I went to my doctor we found out that I had a miscarriage last week. He know looks at me funny and is being slightly different towards. He's asked advice from both his mom and his dad. I'm just not sure how to react to him when he's being like this.

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Thank you all very much for your comments and advice :)

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I was with a guy for 2 yrs, he had 2 small children and I wanted my own even though I loved his to pieces.  He told me he didn't want more and got two other people pregnant.  While I'm sure this isn't your case, I personally couldn't handle being with someone who didn't want the same things as me. One of my biggest aspirations was to be a mom, and I couldn't give that up for anyone.

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Don't force the idea, if he really doesn't want more and you really do, the only solution is to move on and find someone that wants more children with you, end of story.

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Talk to him again about it && if he's adamant about not wanting another child, it might be time to break up & find someone who will want children in the future.