Questions and opinions

Elizabeth • Married for 2 wonderful years and have a beautiful baby girl!
So I know I'm not the only one that has a TON of questions about what's safe to do not only in these early weeks of pregnancy but what's safe to do during the whole duration of these next 9 months. 
My first question is caffeine, I have seen a couple of posts about whether or not it's safe in early pregnancy. Seeing how I drink a cup of coffee a day and can't help but to indulge myself in chocolate, I'm totally freaked out now by this! 
Share you opinions and questions!