He doesnt try to make me climax??

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It just seems like when we are having sex he doesn't try to please me he just cums and its over??  I know I should just talk to him about it but sometimes its nice to have other women to consult with? This is my first post on here so pardon me if it's a dumb question but does anyone else have this issue?

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My ex did that. My current boyfriend makes it all about me, he makes me feel special.

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my bf won't finish until I do but sometimes he isn't as romantic as I wish he would be..talk to him about it! A lot of guys don't understand women's bodies and are usually inexperienced/nervous about their performance. If he just doesnt care about you getting off at all, then its probably time to find a guy that will!

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Well you should talk to him most guys don't know that their girls don't climax. Just don't be harsh be loving and tell him you think he doesn't feel like you enjoying it is important. And if he doesn't care get rid of him! Find a guy that makes sure you also get off.

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Had the same problem with my ex he wouldn't really "get me off" he'd finish and be done. My husband makes it about both of us but he makes sure I always finish(:

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Yes he should be focused on your pleasure! Men have fast easy clinaxes-women sometimes take more time and effort. It's ok if he's nervous, doesn't know what to do- but he needs to try! Tell him to look up tips online that can make him last longer in bed. (Not holding your breath, taking a break)