On a scale of 1 to 20, what is a healthy amount of jealousy in a relationship?

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I was jealous of one girl, boyfriend of a year and half broke up with me for little reason, a short time later he was in a relationship with her. I think instead if being jealous, talk in a non judgemental or argumentative way

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I feel like a little jealousy is healthy because it shows you're afraid to lose the other person. I think it only becomes a problem when it causes the person to be possessive and it becomes an unhappy relationship.

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I'm a little jealous because of ONE girl! I trust my boyfriend so much I just hate when he talks to one girl, which is supposedly his best friend.

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0! Jealousy isn't a positive emotion. Weather you're self conscious or the biggest confident bum ever it's simply not a good thing. 
You can't truly enjoy yourselves if you're 24/7 paying attention to every other being.

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My boyfriend and I are both very jealous of other ppl not because we are insecure we are just ya know? but we work out fabulously no biggie with the right person