Wow, some men, just wow!

So, when I was 22 years old, I went on a date with a 38 year old man and fell head over heels in love over the course of the next year. He had one ex wife, 40 (and child), and one ex fiancé, 43 (and child), but he assured me both relationships were over and done and that we were exclusive. Well, about a year in, he has proposed, but is constantly cancelling dates, is only calling once a week, is taking days to text back, so I called things off. I loved him, but not enough to be a 23 year old waiting by the phone.