I'm angry at myself for this!

Ashley
This post will be long...but your opinions and comments would be so appreciated! So on 9/13 I went to the doctors office for check up she started me on the bc pill. I also at that time had the Mirena iud in. I went that day to get it out and look at other options for birth control. She wanted me on pill for 1month then later remove the iud. Started the pill that day I seen her. Well I started having light brown spotting on 10/8 had Mirena removed 10/9. It was a period, but very light. Unsure of how long it lasted. It was very different. Well I ended up stopping the pill about a week later. Guessing 10/16. So I got a full fledge period from 11/9-11/13. A little background I had the Mirena iud  5 years with very few periods. I could probably count on how many times I had a period on one hand. Before Mirena I'm not sure how often my cycle came. I think 30. So I typed in 28 day cycle for glow bc on the pill for that 1 month that's what it was. According to glow if my cycle was 28 days AF would come today. No sign of her! I took a frer test yesterday and it was negative. Could it be possible my cycle is 30days long or longer and it's still to early to test? Or am I getting my hopes up? Just be blunt with me. I can handle it. Do you think I even ovulated this month?I'm having no solid symptoms of period or pregnancy. Just very mild cramping since before ovulation.My fertile week was from 18-24 for a 28d cycle. We bd everday 19-23. Then again on 26. If I were on a 30 d cycle most fertile day would have been 24, right? The day I missed! I didn't check my temp or cm this is my 1st cycle trying to conceive baby#2. Although, I did recognize like small amount like nickel size of milk white discharge kind of thick- a few days ago in my underwear and again about a week before that. No bleeding at all. I know it's hard to tell given my history, but what do you ladies think? Did I mess up??