When do I tell?

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I'm 23 and infertile due to ovarian complications I suffered in my teens. I never used to worry about telling my boyfriends, because I was still a teenager and I thought it didn't matter. But now that I'm older, I feel like maybe I should? When's it appropriate to tell my boyfriend(s) I cant have children?

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Whenever you feel comfortable enough to open up to them. Which I would assume would still be at the beginning of the relationship, but starting to get serious

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First of all, I am so very sorry for your situation. But as far as telling someone, it's nobody's business but yours on the first date. For all you know, the guy is a dud. But you need to tell the man as soon as you start to get serious, in my opinion

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Well, I don't believe that there is a set time in a relationship that you have the talk about what you want for the future as far as children and starting a family. But I think when that conversation comes up is the right time. And a man could either choose whether or not he can live with possibly not having children of his own. But I think if someone really loves someone that they would be willing to jump any hurdles that come their way.

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I'm so sorry to hear this. I would say you shouldn't have to say anything until the topic comes up about kids. If you are in a relationship and it hasn't come up then more than likely they aren't ready for kids. All you have to do is ask. And also if you say something to early there could be repercussions for that too.