Living with parents??

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I don't know how much more I can take!!! I tell my child no she can't stay up till 10pm when she has school in the morning.. Then they decide to give her cupcakes and treats and let her play while I'm fighting to get her in bed. Or I tell her no she can't open the window and my mom will yell at me to let her.. I tell her to take a bath, and she yanks her arm from me and tells me to go... I'm fucking done! This child never listens to me! (She ony does this with my oldest.) she has thrown me out on the streets and told me I had to leave my kids. And I have had no choice but to do so, because what am I going to do?? Bring them with me to go sleep in abandoned houses or roach hotels?? In the process of trying to get on my feet because SHE kicked me out, she took me to court and took my kids from me! And now that she legally has them and is getting getting money for them, she asked me to come stay here and help her take care of them (still homeless and now pregnant) si of course I said yes, anything to be with my kids 24/7.. But whenever I try to make my oldest listen to me.. She tells her she don't have to. My father constantly yells at me. At my siblings, and my kids. They drink all the time! How the hell is it that the state gave them custody just because I was homeless! They tested me for drugs, I passed. My parents told them I abandoned my kids.. And the cop that I called the night they kicked me out even said I didn't! If they think they will get there claws on this baby! They have to kill me first!!

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I live in fear every day my dad will try to take my son. I used to have dreams all the time reliving the day the constable showed up at my house w the custody order stating I no longer had custody of my child and was allowed no contact w her. I think that prob was the most painful moment in my life. But I did learn a lot the past 3 years.. I learned if u need help and humble urself to ask for it, ppl will help. You can't live like u make 1000 a week when you only make 100, debt collectors will find you!! And tbh the custody battle was the first real situation I didn't quit when it got hard. Keep making the calls u need to make to get help...

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I feel ya :( my dad is a lawyer locally for 30 years. When I married a man that wasn't white he flipped the racist ass my dad is and told a judge I relapsed on drugs (after I had been clean 5 years)..took my daughter w out even a pos drug test. He then kept her from me for 2 yrs by continuing every court date for 6 wks for some reason he or the attorney he hired to fight me came up with. I now have custody back but it took almost 3 years. the last year I fought for her I had custody my son so I was a fit parent for him but not for my daughter bc my dad "said" I wasn't. I have been clean almost 8 years. I was blessed to contact a pro bono law firm and due to circumstances I got a free lawyer plus have a lawsuit against the county bc they illegally alienated me from my child w ok just cause. Get into public housing now if your pregnant - u have to have housing or they will never give you back your kids. Find some means of income..

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I'm so so sorry :/. I know how had itnis living with your parents and having kids.  My mom did the same with my oldest. She turned 6 and started displaying some scary things. Of she didn't get what she wanted when her and I were alone she would physically hurt herself. She once scratched her self til she blead (at my parents you only get REAL attition if your hurt). I freaked out.  I found a family friends dad who let me live in there RV. I staied in there driveway with both my kids til I got on my feet.  "Homeless" parents in most states are not going to get the kids taken for being homeless.  I hope you can re gaincustody of your kids and get the fuck away from your mom.  Agin I'm so sorry :(. I wish I could give more advice.