What to do??? Stressing..

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So me and my boyfriend have sex about 3-6 times every weekend without a condom and he ejaculates inside of me. I am not on any type of birth control. My period is almost a week late and I am having pregnancy symptoms. This would be fantastic besides the fact that 2 years ago I was diagnosed with herpes simplex virus type 1. They say that if you were to get herpes this is the kind you want to have because it wil barely ever effect you in life. The thing is, if I am pregnant my boyfriend does not know about my herpes and I'm stressing horribly of he were to find out say through my doctor at an ultrasound or something. They say it very rarely will ever effect your baby if you have it. Especially if you do t have an outbreak during pregnancy. Which also I have only had one outbreak which was when I discovered I had the virus. So I haven't had any symptoms of it in 2 years. Am I freaking out over nothing? Would finding out that I'm pregnant be the best thing ever to me right now? Or should I be worried? Maybe I'm just scared because this is my first pregnancy scare. And me and boyfriend aren't in the best financial situation at the time. Ps me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and having a baby wouldn't be a bad thing but it would t necessarily be a good thing at this time in our lives. And we are planning on moving in together as soon as possible. Any advice would be well appreciated, please no bad comments I'm not in a very good mind set right now.

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Its illegal in most states to NOT disclose an STD like herpes, there's no cure for that and if y'all ever break up, he'll unknowingly pass that to every future sex partner. How disgusting that you didn't allow him to make an informed decision!!

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Why have you not told him about your herpes, that's wrong. And if you're not financially stable why are you not using any form of birth control? You need to be up front with him and tell him everything that's going on.

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That's extremely selfish and dishonest of you not to disclose something like this to a sexual partner!! You want a baby with this guy but can't tell him the truth? Not ok.

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I have the same thing.....from the exact same reason. Passed from cold sores its a shame ! But I told my boyfriend and he was very understanding and told me we would get through it together so just sit down with him and tell him this has been bothering you and you just need to be honest with him about everything. If he really cares about you Hun he will stand by your side but to keep it from him any longer will just make things worse , specially if you are pregnant. The right steps need to be taken. The bad thing about it is if he starts to break out and you haven't said a word , that might be the worst thing than just being honest.

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So I believe I can help u ... My husband has genital herpes and has had them for twenty years and I do not only because we're careful when he's having an outbreak. But I believe you should tell him becuz it's better to tell him now so that u don't accidentally give him hsv-1.

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You need to talk with him. Stressing is not good for the baby and a relationship needs to be built on trust and honest. He can be mad but maybe he forgives you if you are honest and really put you're self out their.

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One you should have told him anyway. Honesty is key in a relationship. And yes he prolly will find out at dr. Appointments.

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I suggest you sit him down come clean about EVERYTHING and Yall should figure it out together

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You should tell him and make a Dr appointment for a test

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You just need to be honest with him. Don't just tell him about it, tell him why you felt the need to keep it from him. Tell him you are anxious and stressed about it. Uf he really cares for you, he will understand, and he will be there you.