He sleeps with me when im not awake?

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Basically yeah that^^

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I'm going to sound nasty.. But you are one deep sleeper.. My boyfriends moves a little and I'm awake. If he is actually having sex with you whilst your asleep that is rape. Although he's your partner he can't do that. You can either say something to him or get police on him

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Im amazed when people dont understand what rape is and what rape is not. Truly it saddens me that the rape culture we live in affects people in a way that they are desensitized to the definition of rape. Sex is consensual and rape is not consensual...no matter what..no matter how much u love a person..no matter anything! Rape is rape no matter how you justify it people! You can justify it all day and at the end of the day if you did not consent to sex the  it is rape!

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RAPE! Break up with that dick head

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That's one sick dude.

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Being married does not equal concent. Not saying no, is not concent. Teach him about consent if it's bothering you---which it must which is why you're posting this. Watch this video about consent, better yet show ur SO: http://youtu.be/TD2EooMhqRI

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That is rape! If it is not consensual and you didnt agree to it then your boyfriend is raping you no matter how much you love or like him. He is raping you. Rape is not a personal definition, and by definition rape is sex without consent. If you said to ur boyfriend, you can have sex with me while i am sleep then its consent...but if you never gave him permission then he is raping you and if you chose to stay he will keep raping you. Go get help and get out of this sexually abusive relationship. If he doesnt know he is raping you then you both need to get some education about the definition of rape. This is a pretty common issue due to lack of understanding what rape is and many couples experience this if they think it is normal and okay. This is not okay. This is not safe. You may want to question his respect for you as a person

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Like sex? Wtf?

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Uuh if you're not awake.. How do you know? Do you pretend you're sleeping?

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By reading the comments I am assuming you meant he wakes you up for sex. Totally different from him raping you in your sleep. I must say, if I am super tired and not much time to sleep, waking me up would still piss me off. :)

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U should talk to him that's not normal. If that doesn't work report him.