What to do?

Question

I was talking to this guy and we decided that we wanted to take a break because he has a lot going on right now and then a few days ago he calls me and says he alot going on and he doesnt wanna hurt me...end of convo. He wouldnt let me get anything out. I wanted to write a letter or do something to reach out to him and see if would at least talk to me so we can come to an understanding. What you do you ladies think ? Hes done this before and once I expressed how i felt and that i wasnt gonna give up on him everything was fine. He tends to seclude himself when things are hard to understand or explain.

Answer

If you're just talking, not even in a committed relationship, and this isn't the first time he does this, I think it's time to move on. You don't need or want someone in your life that doesn't have or won't make time for you, and won't take your feelings or point of view into account.

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We always think, "he'll see the light and realize he wants to be with me and I'm good for him". But honestly, if he likes you and he sees a future with you, he'll make time bottom line. I've wasted a lot of time on guys that are wishy-washy. Ultimately, if you have to pursue him, you need to move on. That's the guys way of telling you he's not interested.