im 15 & I'm a virgin. I had plans to lose it to 3 people but I get scared each time (none of them were my bfs). I'm not scared because of physical appearance but just because I don't want to regret it. but I feel like the odd one because all my friends are losing their virginities & I feel like I should be apart of that. what should I do?

I wish someone told me when I was your age that there is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin in highschool ! You could save yourself from negative feelings like heartache and regret !

No I'm gonna be a junior this year and I'm almost 17. I want to wait until my wedding night.

Over 73.2% of highschool teens are virgins. I can guarantee that over 80% of this population either became pregnant, contracted an STD, or regretted it. I lost my virginity when I was 19 and even now I think that's young! It was at the end of my senior year with my boyfriend on our 5th anniversary. It happened naturally-- we didn't plan it at all. He didn't pressure me and I can honestly say I have to regrets because I know he truly loved me. We had to break up because we were attending colleges in different states after graduation. I was really devastated and made some choices I really regret like hell. I had sex with two different guys (who weren't my bfs) but it was honestly horrible. It felt good in the moment but in the end I just felt more depressed and lacked self respect. Plus it didn't mean anything, it wasn't special. It was purely physical and I think sex is best enjoyed when there's a emotional attachment involved to. Please don't plan on losing your virginity! Save it for someone special! Wait until you find someone who you know loves you for your personality and not just your body. If they ever pressure you into anything that is a RED FLAG TO LEAVE. Its unfortunate that most guys will just tell you you're pretty until you date them, then they'll just hope it leads to sex. Its sad your friends fell for that trap but don't be another victim! Be smart!

I wish I waited. Honestly that is something to be proud of

Whoever told you its bad is a glamming dumb ass! You are doing perfectly and should be bloody proud!

Absolutely not, I'm a senior and I lost it this past November to my boyfriend of 1 yr that I reaaaalllllyyy love. Wait as long as you want and need to because it's your body. Don't anything you don't want to, and don't rush it. I suggest wait for someone that you truly love so it'll be special, because my experience definitely was.

My boyfriend didn't kiss anyone until me. He didn't have a girlfriend before me. We started dating the week after he graduated high school. So that's okay that you're still a virgin.

I definitely definitely would NOT give it to anyone who isnt your boyfriend. One day you will fall in love with somebody and you will wish you had waited to lose it to them instead of losing it out of insecurity.

I know someone who is a virgin and they're 27, and that's okay! Don't let anyone get to you and just do you!

Is it bad to be a virgin in high school?