Should I get pregnant?

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So I'm 25 and I haven't been happy in my life for quite some time. The other night I prayed to God to send me some guidance so that I can be happy. I've never wanted kids, and strangely the past couple days I find myself thinking maybe a baby would save my life and I would save its. I just graduated and I'm in a job I don't like so I'm going to real estate school next month. My boyfriend and I don't even have a house yet but I have this gut feeling I should get pregnant. Help?? Opinions please!

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No babies won't solve your problems. If you're feeling down, maybe talk to someone? A priest? Therapist?

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Really curious why my post was deleted but yet the people who are bashing this poor girl didn't have theirs deleted. This app is jacked up some times.

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It's hard having a child when you're in school...if I was you, I would finish up real estate school and then have a baby. By then, maybe you'll have that house you want...I believe that everything falls into place when u let it happen ? good luck!

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I have hade depressions. I know how hard they are. You start looking for things that would make you happy. But from experience. Things around you can't make you happy. It's something you have to work through inside yourself and you will need help to really grab thoughts you didn't knowed you hade and question them out. Because sometimes we tell us stuff we don't even ar aware. I can't this/ I'm worthless/ No one would ever love me and all that is really bullshit of you really look at it. When you know 100% that you really want a kid. Not because it would make you happy but because you have so mutch to give a kid. Then you are ready.

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Only you can save your life