1 day late

Hello all! One day late. AF due yesterday. I have had cramping but no spotting. I have been sleepy and hubby says I was out last night by 8:30pm. I have a hpt but am afraid to test too early and would be sad with a BFN ?. Married since 2011 and 37 years old (hubby is 45) so really hoping to have a bun in the oven. I guess I'm scared to get my hopes up and the waiting is killing me. I'm not sure wether to wait a few days or test. Any moral support would be great. Baby dust to all of us xo