Non pleaser???

Question

My boyfriend and I of 1 year have lately started having sex, he has been complaining that he can't stay hard. And that he can't feel me. We just got into a big fight and he says I need to fix it. He said he never had this problem. But also. I do not enjoy sex. It's been getting better but not 100% what do I do??

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It's not your fault. Don't let him tell you it is. If he's trying to make it seem like your fault, and is blaming you, he sounds like someone you probably don't really need to be in a relationship with. You deserve support and love, hun. Don't settle.

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Do not ever let a guy make you feel that way! He probably is saying that because he's embarrassed cuz he can't keep it hard, but either way he should in no way make you feel horrible especially if your new at it ! Id drop this boyfriend if I were you. Is he on any medication? Some medication makes it hard to keep it hard. My husband was on some medication and couldn't keep it hard, I can't remember what it was cuz it was a long time ago but it really embarrassed him to the point to where we didn't have sex for a long time. But he never blamed me or said mean things to me even before we knew what was going on.

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1. Its not your fault.
2. What a jerk thing for him to say!

Do you love him? Or would you be okay with moving on and finding someone who treats you better?

He could have a medical issue, Or maybe it gets too wet in which case he should pull out and wipe his schlong off so he can feel more. Once again though, either way it's not your fault. Throw that shit right back at him girl!

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Lol yea that relationship doesn't look like it's gonna work out.