Is this some kind of cruel joke?!?

I have been off BC for over 2yrs. My husband and I have really been trying to conceive for the last several months. He has a had issues with low testosterone and ED. About 4 months ago we discoverers his troubles were being caused by a medication he was taking. He has been off it now and things are working normally again. I was so happy this month we were finally able to BD many times during my fertile time. That was over 2wks ago. I've been having cramps, bloating sore boobs, nausea, headaches. Today I would've been 5 days late and AF showed up. I'm 37 and I feel like time is running out. I'm so sad and depressed. I could really use some supportive words a and hope right now!!!!