So my first pregnancy I had Ob practice, by the end I really didn't like all but one dr and hated hated hated the hospital (spent most of days alone and in tears as they made me feel so rotten). So I had my first on appt and went to the dr I enjoyed, but have since gotten fed up with the rest of the staff. I have scheduled an apt for this week with a midwife- what should I look to be asking? What is the primary difference?