Rude or am I overreacting? Advice please

Question

I am just about 4 months pregnant, and I've been really sick with this baby. (#2) I told my fiancé since I am hormonal I probably won't be completely myself and more sensitive than I usually am. He plays a lot of video games and watches football constantly. I don't mind of course, I get to rest when he does. I did tell him when baby comes I hope things are not the same, meaning he's not on his game or stuck on his phone or tv when he's not at work and spending a little time with us. He said I'm bitching about it and it kinda hurt my feelings since I honestly never tell him to change it or do anything with me. I just tried to talk to him and he said I am bitching and I need to stop. Is he right for this? I'm seriously so frustrated with him for saying that!

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No, men never understand how women feel bout guys and there games specially during pregnancy. Idk what it is, they just love games and call us bitches when we talk to them bout it. I mean my ex was the same. I was calm bout it but he still called me bitch so idk

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Try not to nag, everyone needs their own "alone time", and pregnancy hormones can make us crazy and super sensitive (I definitely lost it a few times lol). But I totally agree that once that baby comes out he better man up and help out. The whole pregnancy and baby thing doesn't sink in for most guys until the little one is born (or later), but you should have a casual (but serious) conversation with him when he isn't busy doing something else, let him know that you need to be a team and he will need to help out too, some sacrifices will have to be made by both of you, that's what parenting is, but it shouldn't be one sided. You will also need ALOT of help in the first few weeks after delivery, so he should be prepared for that too. See if he will go to a parenting class with you (usually free at the hospital, etc). Buy him some baby books written for daddy....maybe he will read them on his own time....good luck!!

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If he said you are bitching that just means fussing or confrontational. You didnt state that he called you by name of a bitch, therefore what is the problem sit with him while he is watching tv or playing video games. Spending time together just means being with each other and being a part of the action that is taking place.