Telling my family....including my boyfriend

Tara
So part one of this post is that I just found out after almost a year of trying that I am finally pregnant!! My boyfriend doesn't know yet. I'm not sirenifbibshould wait for him to get home from work on Tuesday to tell him or just tell him over the phone. What do you guys think??!!  
Part two is that I just found out my nephews mother who no one in my family can stand is also pregnant. Probably about as far along as me which is 4 weeks.  I feel like bc they don't like her that she will steal my thunder so to speak. She isn't with my brother. Her pregnancy is with another guy.....so now I'm kinda bummed...