I thought being in a group with other pregnant women would be enjoyable because after two miscarriages this year I am not ready to share my news, but........ Some of the women on this board are catty mean girls and believe me there was another word I wanted to use. If someone uploads a pic of their belly at two weeks why do you care. I am excited to be pregnant and having the bloating makes it real for me because I desperately want it to be real. You are not aware of everyone's story so please if you have something negative to say please don't. It is not that we can't handle the truth we just simply do not want to hear your truth.   We are on this journey as individuals but also as a group and I would like to think that my child's peers are going to be raised by someone other than someone who gets delight by wanting to hurt others.