Baby Shower Etiquette!

I think you're justified in your feelings. Maybe someone is doing a surprise one for you? My sister is throwing mine but I am helping since I like to know what's going on. Lol

Why would you have a shower for your 3rd baby? Seems strange to me. I've only heard of it for your first.

To be honest  I will have a baby shower for each of the babies I have no matter what because I'm not gonna have it so people buy gifts im having it to celebrate my little beautiful creation ?

I would like to help with mine but it's being kept a big secret! Thrown by my husbands aunt. 

My mother in law is throwing mine (with help from aunt in law and sister in law). They offered basically as soon as they found out we are expecting! Very sweet of them - I feel very fortunate. For those with baby showers for second, third, etc children, I heard of throwing a "baby sprinkle" which is a less elaborate baby shower (more low key?). Just an idea! 

I hav a feelin a friend is doin me a surprise 1 Wich will be lovely only am a bit worried sum of my wrk friends an ppl she doesn't knw won't get invited ? I dnt think it matters if u do ur own or sum1 els does it, at least u knw wats goin off an who's comin if u do ur own, am just rubbish at organizeing things so didn't realy fancy doin my own an iv never been to 1 so dnt knw wat todo,

This is my 3rd baby and I've never had one, I'm not even sure what it is lol. I guess it's not something that we really do in the UK but they sound like they'd be great fun! Do you announce gender at them too? Or is that separate? 

I am throwing my own baby shower :)) what's wrong with it? 

My friends offered to do a virtual one ( I moved across the country), but never said anything else about it. I registered just in case. It's my second kid, so it isn't really necessary. I think my feelings would be hurt if no one offered with the first. Maybe you could send an email saying, "Some people have asked about giving gifts and I can't remember who. Since, I don't have a shower planned I registered and here's the link to my registry if you need it." You can word it much more politely  of course. Maybe that will throw a hunt and someone will offer to do it.

My sister in law is doing mine. She is over the top excited and is planning it all on her own - This is the first grandchild on my husbands side so they are really excited. I don't know any details. I really wouldn't mind helping; but they want to do it all