I'm up to my eyeballs in debt.

I<3Dolphins • I`m a 23 year old Military wife. My husband and I have been TTC #1 since November 13, 2013. ✨
Okay, I want to have a baby so bad. But at thanksgiving, I sat down and figured up how much debt I had. It's worse than I thought. I am 16,000 in debt, 36,000 if you count our car. At this point, after all our bills, we cannot afford to buy anything extra. And babies cost extra. I want a baby so bad but I'm in too much debt. ?
I don't know what to do. I'm looking for a job. I watched Confessions of a Shopaholic but I don't have enough clothes to sell to make 16,000. 
What can I do (that is not illegal or morally wrong) to help pay off my debt faster?