We have been TTC for 5 months. I am usually always the one who initiates. I sometimes have to beg because he claims to be tired and worn out. Although the first few years of marriage this was never an issue. The last 2 cycles hubs has really been in a slump. He has never had an issue with performing. He's trying to up his testosterone, and he's really trying to hang in there. I'm starting to think he needs to talk to a doctor about this because it has not taken this long to concieve with our last 2 kids. Sigh...