I have been TTC baby # 2 for 3 yrs after having mirena for 3 yrs. I'm almost to the point of giving up and getting neutered. My son is now 6 and I feel like the age gap is to big and I feel like I'm getting to old. Nobody in my family seems to understand how hard it is and how much I feel like a failure especially when I concieved my son the first month I got off BC.