Sister advice?

Question

The past year my sister has been having relationship troubles with her boyfriend. I was there for her through everything. She couldn't decide if she wanted to be with her ex boyfriend or her new boyfriend and kept getting back, breaking up etc. My family are pretty sick of her with all of her drama, despite us being there for her.

I recently found out that I'm pregnant and I'm so excited. But she hadn't been there for me at all. I couldn't go to her nephews birthday party due to really bad morning sickness and she didn't even ask me if I was ok. I'm unemployed at the moment but still bothered to buy Christmas gifts for her and her 2 children, and I got a gift for my nephews birthday also.

She didn't bother to wish me a merry Christmas. I'm really hurt that I spent so much time being there for her and she won't give me the time of day. I would understand if she was really hurting, but all she has done the past month is go on nights out with her friends. She cares more about creating the perfect "view" of her life on Facebook.

I don't think that she even knows that she has been ignoring me. She can be so selfish and self centered at times that I think she hasn't even noticed that she has been ignoring me.  I think she might be having a mid life crisis.

I'm so hurt that I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable? I've never had a fight with her (she's 11 years older than me so we didn't grow up in the same house as kids) and I don't know how to approach my feelings with her?

Sorry this is so long, I'm just feeling like I don't have very many friends since I've shared the news that I'm pregnant ?

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Congratulations! I'll be ur friend. I'm not pregnant. I have 2 kids of my own 11 & 9. I know what ur going thru. You have a big heart, cudos for that. I, too, have a big heart. I would give someone the clothes off my back, my last dollar, a ride without asking for gas money, let you borrow something or money without ever asking for it back, I'd give you food if you were hungry, be there for u when ur sick...SEE all these things plus lots more make me who I am. But does anyone do the same for me, when I need the favor returned? Heck no! Don't let ur sister get to you, enjoy ur pregnancy. She'll come around. And when that time comes and she asks u y you haven't been around...tell her how you feel.  Lay all the cards on the table.

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Also just don't bother with her she will soon bother with you

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I'll be your friend I'm pregnant also and you don't need her she's a selfish cow I hope your feeling ok ?

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Congraaaaats!.. 
Here is an advise from a hurted woman.. I've been there for a lot of people and been shutted down when I was in need. SO, dont give anyone a second of ur time if they're not giving u a moment of thiers, and u'll be fine

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My sister and I are the same distance a part. And we have it rough sometimes we even went 8 months without talking or seeing each other. You just have to find your groove with each other, we still don't agree on a lot of things but we make the most of family time and try to be there for each other, but honestly I feel like she has friends that have kind of taken my place as her little sister. She even treats their kids better than she treats her own neice... It's hard to accept at first but you find your groove :) it's a big age gap and it's hard

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Congratulations!!

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